Author: Kerry Patterson, Joseph Grenny, David Maxfield
Notes:
- What qualifies people to be called leaders is their capacity to influence others in order to achieve results
- Keys to Influence
- Focus and Measure
- Find Vital Behaviours
- Vital behaviour search strategies
- Notice the obvious (but underused)
- Look for crucial moments
- Learn from positive deviants
- Spot culture busters
- Engage all 6 sources of influence
- Personal Motivation
- Tactics
- Allow for choice
- Create direct experiences
- Tell meaningful stories
- Make it a game
- Keep score
- Competition
- Constant improvement
- Control
- Personal Ability
- Deliberate Practice
- Require complete attention
- Needs clear and frequent feedback against a known standard
- Breaks mastery into mini goals
- Builds in resilience and prepares for setbacks
- Emotional Master
- Arguing with feelings → Cognitive reappraisal
- Social Motivation
- Sometimes all you need is to find or be the one respected individual that flies in the face of what everyone else is doing
- Self: To encourage change, generate clear, unambiguous evidence that others can believe → Sacrifice
- Sacrifice Time
- Sacrifice Money
- Sacrifice Ego
- Sacrifice Previous Priorities
- Others: Engage the chain of command
- Change sometimes requires changes in norms
- Go public and discuss current norm
- Hold everyone else accountable to new norm
- Social Ability
- Signs that assistance is needed to to overcome problem
- Interdependence
- Novelty
- Risk
- Structural Motivation
- Goal not to overwhelm people, but to remove disincentives
- Incentives need to be ensure to
- Come soon
- Be gratifying
- Clearly tied to vital behaviours
- Reward should be for right behaviours, not just results
- Punishment sends a message, but so does its absence
- Provide warning if continuing to negative path
- Implications and punishment should be clear when required
- Structural Ability
- What we do is influenced by many silent environmental forces
- To influence, make the invisible forces visible
- Mind the data stream → use data to make obvious
- Use physical space and proximity to influence
- Make it easy
- Make it unavoidable
- Most people have their favourite influence methods → too simplistic → engage other sources